A book for anyone who has ever loved someone so much they started to lose themselves.
You, Me, and I is about intimacy, attachment, and the quiet ways we disappear while trying to feel close to another person.
It is for the person who overthinks every text, feels responsible for someone else's moods, confuses longing with love, or tries to earn security by becoming easier to love.
Craig Reuter explores what happens when connection becomes tangled with fear, reassurance, control, desire, fantasy, and self-abandonment. This book asks a simple but difficult question: how do we love deeply without making another person the center of our worth?
Written in clear, intimate prose, You, Me, and I is a book about staying present inside love without disappearing into it. It is about the ache to be chosen, the hunger to be understood, and the private bargains we make when closeness begins to feel like survival.
Because love was never meant to rescue you from yourself.
It was meant to let you meet another person while remaining here.