If You Have Lost Someone: A Book About Grief, Loss, and Learning to Live Again
For anyone who has a 7:02pm.
You know the minute. The one where the phone rang. The one where the doctor spoke. The one where the world split open and you fell through. You've been living in it ever since-replaying it, rewriting it, trying to find the version where things go differently.
This is not a self-help book. It will not tell you that "time heals" or that "they're in a better place." Those are lies, and this book refuses to lie to you.
Instead, it tells the story of someone who gets stuck in their own 7:02pm. A phone call. A sister. A truck on the I-10. And then the call comes again. And again. A thousand times. Each time, sixty seconds to change what cannot be changed. Each time, the same words: Honey, there was an accident.
What follows is a journey through the architecture of loss-the bargaining, the bottling, the funerals we attend for strangers because our own hurt too much, the ghosts that move in and pay rent, the jars we fill with memories that eventually go cloudy, the empty chairs we save at graduations.
For readers of The Midnight Library and Lincoln in the Bardo. This is not a book about getting over it. It's a book about getting to 7:04pm.
Not a cure. Not an answer. A mirror held up to grief, memory, and survival.
